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The Only 5 Types of Texts You'll Ever Get (And How to Never Overthink Again)
The truth is, attraction through text isn’t about playing a game or crafting the “perfect” message. It’s about confident texting...the ability to communicate with clarity, playfulness, and purpose. Overthinking kills attraction. Confidence creates it. And the key to confident texting? Knowing that every text you’ll ever receive fits into just...
The Only 5 Types of Texts You'll Ever Get (And How to Never Overthink Again)
The truth is, attraction through text isn’t about playing a game or crafting the “perfect” message. It’s about confident texting...the ability to communicate with clarity, playfulness, and purpose. Overthinking kills...

The 3-Question Second Date Test: How to Decide If You Should Say Yes to a Second Date
A second date isn’t a commitment to marriage, but it is a commitment of your time. And in modern dating - where options are endless but attention spans are short - wasting time on the wrong people can seriously slow you down.
The 3-Question Second Date Test: How to Decide If You Should Say Yes to a Second Date
A second date isn’t a commitment to marriage, but it is a commitment of your time. And in modern dating - where options are endless but attention spans are short - wasting...

What to Do When You Have No Matches (and Why It’s Not Your Fault)
If you want more matches, you need to do three things: Fix your first photo – This is the only thing people see before deciding if they’ll even check your bio. Period. End. Fin. No questions. Make your bio feel like an invitation, not a résumé – No one is...
What to Do When You Have No Matches (and Why It’s Not Your Fault)
If you want more matches, you need to do three things: Fix your first photo – This is the only thing people see before deciding if they’ll even check your...

Why Dating Feels Harder in Today's Fast-Paced World (2025)
Why can't we all get what we want EVEN WITH all this technology, wisdom, and shared experience? Because dating in today’s fast-paced world is an entirely different beast. It’s a paradox where we’re surrounded by opportunities to connect yet often feel lonelier in our pursuit of love. In this article,...
Why Dating Feels Harder in Today's Fast-Paced World (2025)
Why can't we all get what we want EVEN WITH all this technology, wisdom, and shared experience? Because dating in today’s fast-paced world is an entirely different beast. It’s a...

Why Dating in Your 30s Is the Best Thing to Happen to Your Love Life
Think about it: you’re wiser, more confident, and (hopefully) less likely to fall into the traps or faulty/unhealthy mindset you did in your 20s. Dating in this phase of life isn’t about playing games; it’s about finding something real and meaningful. And the best part? You’re in the driver’s seat.
Why Dating in Your 30s Is the Best Thing to Happen to Your Love Life
Think about it: you’re wiser, more confident, and (hopefully) less likely to fall into the traps or faulty/unhealthy mindset you did in your 20s. Dating in this phase of life...

How to Match Messaging Styles to Attract More Matches
“People like us do things like this.” That simple idea is at the heart of why matching someone’s communication style works so well. When you match someone’s messaging style, you’re essentially saying, “I get you. We’re on the same team. We see the world in a similar way.” Guess who...
How to Match Messaging Styles to Attract More Matches
“People like us do things like this.” That simple idea is at the heart of why matching someone’s communication style works so well. When you match someone’s messaging style, you’re...