For men who want dating to finally make sense

A Clear, Proven Path to Turning Matches Into Something Real

A practical guide that shows you how to move past small talk and create genuine momentum from the first message to the first date...and beyond.

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From the creator of The First Date Toolkit - trusted by hundreds of men improving how they connect every day.

What Changes When You Go Beyond the Match

  • 🕓 Before: Endless texting that goes nowhere.

    ➡️ After: Conversations that lead to real connection

  • 🧠 Before: Overthinking what to say

    ➡️ After: Confidence in being your true self

  • 🔥 Before: Short-term sparks that fade

    ➡️ After: Attraction that deepens over time
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What Others Are Saying

🗣️ “This book actually gives techniques - not just ‘be yourself’ advice.”

🗣️ “Finally, a dating guide that helps you create real attraction without weird ‘pickup’ gimmicks.”

🗣️ “Beyond the Match was well worth the small price and it helped me find my person!"

🗣️ “Thank you for all the insight!"

FAQs

Do I really need another dating book? Aren’t they all the same?

Most dating advice is a list of tricks. Beyond the Match isn’t a bag of tricks...it’s a lens.

It helps you see dating differently, so you stop guessing, stop chasing, and start connecting with intention.

If you’ve read other books and still feel stuck, you don’t need more information.

You need a clearer path.

This is that path.

I’m not trying to be a pickup artist. Is this even for me?

Good. This isn’t for pickup artists. It’s for men who want to feel calm, confident, and grounded on every date...without becoming someone else.

No manipulation. No ‘alpha’ theater. No pretending.

If you want something real, I wrote this for you.

What if I’m not good at dating? What if I’ve already screwed things up?

You haven’t failed...you’ve just been operating without a framework. Beyond the Match is built for real guys with real doubts, real overthinking, and real experiences.

You don’t need to fix your personality. You just need to adjust your approach.

Small shifts → big results.

This guide teaches those shifts.

Will it actually help… or will it just sit on my phone/computer collecting digital dust?

Everything in this guide is designed to be used immediately.

No long stories. No homework assignments you’ll never finish.

Just actionable tools you can apply on your next date, your next match, or your next conversation...often within minutes.

If you implement even one section, the entire book pays for itself.

Why I Built This

I created In The Now because I spent years feeling like I was “doing dating wrong,” even though I knew I was a "good man" with good intentions. I remember the confusion, the overthinking, and the feeling that everyone else had some secret playbook, or script, or just confidence....except me. Everything I make - from the First Date Toolkit to Beyond the Match - comes from learning the hard way and wanting to make it easier for the next guy. You deserve clarity, confidence, and connections that feel real, not forced. I felt like I deserved that and didn't have it at the time...so I created all this for you. If you’re ready for that, I’d love to help you get there.

- TT (Creator of In The Now)

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