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In The Now provides actionable dating and self-improvement advice for meaningful connections. Unlike other 'generic' strategies, we focus on techniques that help you stand out while staying authentic to what makes you, YOU.

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Our Dating Improvement Approach

  • Actual Techniques

    Clear, actionable strategies to connect in ways that resonate and feel genuine to you.

  • Focus on Authenticity

    Learn to be yourself, build confidence, and attract people into your life who align with who you genuinely are.

  • Move Beyond Text & Apps

    Our resources are designed to help you move toward real-life connections and conversations that make an impact.
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Beyond the Match

Dating Advice in the "App Era"

Wouldn't it be a relief to confidently and genuinely plan dates with someone you're interested in without having to second-guess every word or message? Our bestselling book, Beyond the Match, takes you deeper into how you can move seamlessly and effortlessly from Digital to Deep connections. Discover techniques, customizable scripts, and frameworks designed to elevate every interaction, so you can date and connect with true confidence.

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